Wednesday, November 12, 2008

What Obama's win tells the world


Barack Obama's election to the presidency of the United States has inspired hearts and minds toward new idealism emerging from the wreckage of a material world buried under its own weight. America needs a leader for a change that will not be ordinary, but one that focuses on ordinary people's hopes and dreams. When the trappings of a modern world have corrupted our ideals, it is time to go back to the basics of the life we want to live.

America found the right person to bring back idealism into the hearts of everyone, at the same time that most of the world re-examines its own set of ideals in a wasteland of economic devastation. One can say that the financial chaos that greeted America, and the rest of the world in mid-September was a crude awakening to our lack of conscience and common sense. We have allowed ourselves to be led by political and economic leaders whose sole motivation is self-interest and preservation of a system built at the expense of ordinary people.

If the Americans can wake up one day and realise that they need real change, and then elect the best person they believe capable of leading them towards change, why can't other nations do the same? The only other historical moment of this magnitude - that awed the world - was when Nelson Mandela after being held in prison for many years, became the first democratically-elected President of South Africa. He led his country towards democracy and freed his people from the politics of racial segregation.

How many nations today suffer from political systems that perpetuate corruption and a social cancer that feeds on the ignorance of the people, on their religious beliefs that poverty and over-population are mandated from heaven. The Philippines, has had one shining historical moment of what is now commonly referred to as "People's Revolution" in 1986, and wherein a woman- also historical in itself - became president and replaced a dictator who fled at the height of the popular street uprising. At that moment, there was a singular voice among the people who called for change. The mandate of leadership was given to Corazon Aquino, widow of the slain politician Benigno Aquino. But she faltered, lost the vision for change and in the end, old politics returned with merciless vengeance.

There were other nations that also experienced illustrious historical moments, as did happen in Poland with Lech Walesa and the Solidarity and in Czech Republic with Vaclav Havel. They were social agents that brought about change beyond national borders, change that inspired others to follow a better path for humanity. Many changes took place at the tremendous cost of human lives. However, looking at America just now, the change that is going to make or unmake a great nation rests upon a charismatic young leader with a vision of what the country needs in terms of shared purpose and common goals, the empowerment of ordinary citizens in a world without wars.#

Monday, November 10, 2008

Falling in...and out of love

The cycle of beginnings and endings happens every second, every minute in any part of this planet. There is birth to celebrate and there is death to mourn. When a relationship dies, do we fall apart or feel unshackled from pain, deceit and lies. Deception because we have led ourselves to believe in the fairy tale ending of "living happily ever after", and lies because loving comes with having to lie sometimes, in order to avoid distress and distraction.

Basic truths are however a must in any relationship. It is important to differentiate between falling in love deeply, being strongly attracted (to someone) and just having a fun time while waiting for the right one. In each situation, the degree of pain one suffers with separation varies from mild to tsunami-like aftermath. When love that has deepened with time is corrupted with goals no longer shared in common, separation is a surgical necessity that brings pain during operation but eventually relief with recovery.

Even short-term love affairs are not easy to deal with in terms of endings that shield us from self-loathing and regrets. The time one invests on even short romantic affairs are also precious and tedious as those placed in long-term relationships such as marriages and lifetime companionship. It must be devastating for anyone to go through the process of ending a relationship that has held its ground for many years, only to discover that the foundation is faulty.

There are no wise words to soften the impact of a separation. The heart bleeds and life's motion comes to a stop until a new momentum is found. The healing process differs according to how badly the heart has taken the blow. There are those who never recover from the loss of someone and in most cases, women suffer more than men. There are also those who require a complete change in one's lifestyle and place of living, even a new country in order to avoid running into bad memories. Whatever it is and wherever one takes abode, the important thing is to keep the heart healthy, so that it can give and receive love without the obstruction of a sordid past.#